You made it to the end.
Every person who ever walked into the room I built said some version of the same sentence: I thought I was the only one.
If you just said it too, quietly, to no one, this page is for you. That sentence is why the book exists. It’s why this page exists too.
— Jolie
If one of the heavier chapters is sitting on you right now, you don’t have to scroll past anything: the people who pick up are here.
Land here from a link, not the last page? Game Face Down came out of thirty-three recorded conversations about the face we keep on in the room and what sits behind it. You can hear all of them, free, a little further down.
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One play a week
The book is finished. The library isn’t. There are about a thousand of these written down, one for nearly every version of the room you just read about.
Every Monday I send one. Five steps and the sentence to send, for a moment somebody is actually standing in. No essay. No newsletter voice. If it stops being useful, one click and you’re out.
You’re on it
First one lands Monday.
While you’re here. What room are you walking into? One sentence is plenty. I read these myself and I answer them myself.
Got it. You’ll hear from me.
The voices in this book
Every one of them sat across from me first, on the Revenue Mind podcast. Thirty-three conversations, all of them free, all of them the unabridged version of what you just read. New here? Start with any one of them.
Or go back to the one that followed you out. Fourteen anchors, fourteen conversations. Each one has the unabridged version behind it.
Match a chapter to its episode
- 1The TunnelLashay Lewis
- 2Broken on SundayAnthony Kennada
- 3The Identity TaxClaude Silver
- 4The Performance Review Your Depression Would WriteDilara Cossette
- 5Twenty SecondsMark Huber
- 6Boundaries or ElseTim Davidson
- 7The Quota CarrierBrandon Fluharty
- 8Don’t Judge the Moment Too SoonChris Walker
- 9The Shield That Was PerfectEvan Hughes
- 10The Slip Is the WarningAnthony Morell
- 11The Fairy-Tale ForecastBolaji Oyejide
- 12When Everything Hits at OnceJamal Hamilton
- 13The Word That Was Never TrueLeslie Venetz
- 14The Ikea CouchRob LoCascio
If the book did its job
Honest mechanics: the thing that most decides whether Amazon shows this book to the next person isn’t anything I do. It’s how many readers said something about it.
Three sentences is plenty. Say what stayed with you, or what you argued with. The next person standing where you were standing will read it and think the sentence this whole thing is built on: I thought I was the only one.
Take it into a room
The back of the book has a discussion guide: three questions per chapter, none of them meant to be answered well. They’re meant to be answered honestly.
It works in a book club, a leadership offsite, a recovery meeting, or on a long walk alone. Here it is as its own file, so you can hand it to a room before you walk in. The rule from the book stands: start somewhere easy. The question that scares you most will still be there in an hour.
If the heavier chapters hit close to home
It took me fifteen years to learn that asking is the play. Borrow that. These are real people who pick up:
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988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Call or text 988. Open 24/7, for any kind of crisis, not only suicide.
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Crisis Text Line
Text HOME to 741741 to reach a trained crisis counselor. Free and confidential, 24/7. Text HOLA for Spanish.
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SAMHSA National Helpline
1‑800‑662‑4357. Free and confidential, 24/7. Treatment referral and information for mental health and substance use.
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Alcoholics Anonymous
Find A.A. near you, or use the Meeting Guide app for meetings local groups keep current. Online meetings at aa-intergroup.org. Folding chairs, bad coffee, somebody nods.
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National Alliance for Eating Disorders
1‑866‑662‑1235. Eating-disorder support and treatment referrals, Monday–Friday, 9am–7pm Eastern.
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The Trevor Project
For LGBTQ+ young people: call 1‑866‑488‑7386, text START to 678‑678, or chat at thetrevorproject.org. Free and confidential, 24/7.
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Share Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support
1‑800‑821‑6819. Support for anyone touched by pregnancy loss, stillbirth, or the death of a baby in its first months. Online chats and peer companions at nationalshare.org.
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Outside the United States
The International Association for Suicide Prevention connects to a verified global helpline directory.
Didn’t sign up on the way past? One play a week.